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Cancer, the fourth Sign of the Zodiac, is all about home. Those born under
this Sign are 'roots' kinds of people and take great pleasure in the comforts of
home and family. Cancers are maternal, domestic and love to nurture others. More
than likely, their family will be large, too -- the more, the merrier! Cancers
will certainly be merry if their home life is serene and harmonious. Traditions
are upheld with great zest in a Cancer's household, since these folks prize
family history and love communal activities. They also tend to be patriotic,
waving the flag whenever possible. A Cancer's good memory is the basis for
stories told around the dinner table, and don't be surprised if these folks get
emotional about things. Those born under this Sign wear their heart on their
sleeve, which is just fine by them.
The Cancerian character is the least clear-cut of
all those associated with the signs of the zodiac. It can range from the timid,
dull, shy and withdrawn to the most brilliant, and famous Cancerians are to be
found through the whole range of human activity. It is a fundamentally
conservative and home-loving nature, appreciating the nest like quality of a
secure base to which the male can retire when he needs a respite from the
stresses of life, and in which the Cancerian woman can exercise her strong
maternal instincts. The latter tends to like and to have a large family. `Nest
like' is an appropriate adjective for the Cancerian home, for its inhabitants
tend to favor the dark, mysterious but comfortable type of house which has
something of the air of a den about it, a place which belongs to the family
rather than existing as a showcase to impress visitors.
That is not to say that the Cancerian is unsociable, just that for them there is
a time to socialize and a time to be solitary, and this is part of the apparent
contradiction in their nature. Outwardly, they can appear formidable -
thick-skinned, unemotional, uncompromising, obstinately tenacious, purposeful,
energetic, shrewd, intuitive and wise, sometimes with a philosophical profundity
of thought verging on inspiration. Their intimates, however, may see a very
different character, one with a sympathetic and kindly sensitivity to other
people, especially those they love. They are able to identify with the
situations of others because of the keenness of their imaginations.
They are often over-imaginative and prone to fantasy, sometimes trying to shape
their lives to fit some romantic ideal. They are appreciative of art and
literature, and especially of drama, where the spectacle, ebb, and flow of
action and feeling particularly excite them. They may themselves possess
considerable literary, artistic or oratorical talent. Their sharp ears and
talent for mimicry can sometimes give them success on the stage, though their
tendency to be emotional may make them overact. Interestingly - because they
give the impression of being down-to-earth - they are often fascinated by the
occult and are more open to psychic influence than the average. If they can
reconcile the personal conflict of their urge to be outgoing with the reserve
that causes them to withdraw into themselves, then at best they can inspire a
generation, especially the youthful part of it, by their idealism. A job in
which they can express this, and in which they can do well, would be as a leader
in a youth organization.
The mascot of Cancerians is the Crab, and much like this shelled little
critter, Cancerians are quick to retreat into their shells if it suits their
mood. No wonder these folks are called crabby! For Cancer, it's not that big of
a deal, though, since they consider this 'shell' a second home (and they do love
home). The flip side of this hiding is that shell-bound Crabs are often quite
moody. Further, in keeping with their difficulty in sharing their innermost
feelings, it can become a Herculean task to pry a Crab out of its secret hiding
place. What to do? Give the Crab time -- eventually these folks will come out to
play again. When they do, they'll be the first to say so, in keeping with the
Cardinal Quality attached to this Sign. It's said that Crabs are first to laugh
and first to cry, so you can bet they'll fill you in. That shell, by the way,
isn't the only tough thing about Crabs. These folks are tenacious and
strong-willed and like to get their way. If their well-documented kindness and
gentleness doesn't do the trick, however, they're not above using emotional
manipulation to make things happen. If that still doesn't work, they'll just go
back to their shell and sulk, or find a way to get back at the source of their
pain, since Crabs can be rather vindictive. That said, any self-respecting Crab
would tell you that they are ultimately motivated by protecting their home and
loved ones, a most noble goal.
Cancerian Career Profile
Their abilities fit the Cancerian for a wide range of occupations. As they are
interested in what people are thinking and able to judge what they can safely be
told, they can be good journalists, writers or politicians, though in this last
capacity they are more likely to remain in the background rather than attain
prominent positions of power. They may indeed, change their party affiliations.
They can serve in other departments of public affairs, especially those which
involve looking after others, for example in any kind of service from welfare
and nursing to catering - their own love of comfort and good living makes the
Cancerian an excellent chef or housekeeper. They sometimes have a penchant for
trade or business and are often successful as a captain of industry. This is
because they are excellent organizers with a good sense of value and economy,
which they may combine with a flair for inventiveness and originality. The
romantic side of their natures makes them enjoy grubbing about in places where
exciting discoveries may be made (old stamp collections in attics, etc.), and if
they can do this professionally as a secondhand dealer or specialist in
antiques, they will be happy. More common occupations, which suit some subjects
of Cancer, are real estate broker, gardener and sailor.
Cancerian Love life
In their personal relationships they are mentally a mixture of tougthness and
softness, often emotional and romantic to the point of sentimentality in their
fantasies; but in real life and in marriage, their loving is not so sentimental
but tenaciously loyal. Even if they have affairs (and they may do so, for the
male in particular is open to sensual stimulation), their first loyalty remains
to spouse and family, of whom they regard themselves as the protector. Both the
Cancerian man and woman love unreservedly, giving much and asking little in
return - in fact, one of the most important lessons they have to learn is how to
receive gracefully. They are too easily influenced by those they love and
admire, and swayed by the emotion of the moment. They are also loyal friends,
the negative side of their faithfulness being clannishness, the narrow
patriotism of "my country right or wrong"; and closing ranks in suspicion and
coldness toward outsiders. They are easily corrupted and, because they are
convincing romanticizers, can make successful confidence tricksters. Their
romanticism in another sense make them ardent supporters of causes, for example
a football team with whose heroes they can identify in a world of fantasy.
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